Friday, November 6, 2009

Halloween

After making several costume suggestions I realized Joachim had no idea what I was talking about and I should just pick something for him... He really liked the king/knight costume and I even sort of included him in its creation. It wasn't quite the creative bonding experience I'd envisioned, nonetheless it was cheap and simple and he liked the final product... especially the sword we borrowed from Tristen. Joachim will not be getting a sword of his own until he can play with it without being constantly reprimanded.
You can see the remnants of our snowman strewn across the yard in the above picture. When designing the costume I asked Ben to get a picture of a dragon that I could stencil on the cape. He looked up the history of the Jones surname and found that our crest is a blue and silver lion with blood dripping from its chest. So he drew a lion, but I painted it red and left off the bleeding chest. The surname comes from the personal name John, or the Latin Johannes, meaning "Yahweh is gracious." That's a nice name to carry I think. The motto is "without God, without anything." I think they mean that in a good way.
We met up with Willon and his family, his mama made him the most adorable Dragon costume and together they stormed the streets of Delta (annual trick-or-treat at the stores on Main Street).After thoroughly inspecting the basement window with Willon, Joachim still had to make sure nothing fishy was going on in there.

the first snow

The last week of October we got our first snow of the season. Joachim went to the front door exclaiming, "Birds! mama birds!" Sure enough the birds were flocking right outside our door, it was a pretty impressive sight.
Joachim doesn't remember snow from last year (he didn't like it then anyway) but this year he's read about it in books, especially Goodnight Moon which features mittens drying by the fire and snow falling outside. When Joachim saw the snow (the sun was barely lighting the sky) he donned his winter boots still in his PJ's, "like in Sposure Esposure" he exclaimed (mama has been checking Northern Exposure out from the library and that's where he get's the rest of his winter information). He even wore his mittens that I knit and he rejected last year.

The biggest surprise of all for him was that snow is cold! But once he accepted that fact his cold endurance outlasted mine. We made a couple of snowmen and I had quite a bit of fun vicariously living through his enthusiasm.
He's saying to himself, "I a good workerman, I clean mama's car, I a good workerman."
And when we did go inside we hung our wet clothes by the fire and made Pumpkinbread.
And for those of you still reading this far down my blog I want to clarify that this is not my daily life. I've had many difficult days especially recently as I mentally and emotionally prepare for the addition to our family. I'm working through feelings of loss of my dyadic relationship with my first born and a sense of inadequacy that I don't appreciate and enjoy him enough in the time that I have. I put off playing play-do and I have an all too short interest in train tracks and blocks. I try to include him in the kitchen as much as possible, but too many times I put on Veggie Tales instead.
I recently read in a book how important it is to look at your life in focus and really make your treasures a priority. Rather than being inspired I just felt lost and scattered. We ARE expecting to move in to our house in early December and that will take a load off of the scattered feeling, but I know it's also just in me.

cutting firewood

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Pumpkin patch

Down the street is one of the quaintest pumpkin patches that we are very grateful to Corey for sharing with us. The corn maze free and the pumpkins are real cheap and it was great fun for a two year old and his mama.
Joachim had a blast in the corn maze that was complete with challenging dead end and long "tunnels" as he called them. It would have been better only if Daddy could have joined us.
This is the pumpkin picture Liza and Steven sent last Christmas. It's been on our fridge all year and is one of Joachim's favorite pictures. He often takes it down and talks about their big pumpkin. This fall season he's talked about all pumpkins in relation to this one. We had a very nice crop of pumpkins in our garden (7 good pumpkins, but none as impressive as this Alaskan accomplishment). I've been diligently cooking them down in the crock pot, but only one fits at a time. We need to hook up our freezer to accommodate the bounty. I think our friends can expect a lot of pumpkin bread and pumpkin soup this year.

Vail

Earlier in October we stayed in Vail with a my parents at a time share. It was fun for all, but we are looking forward to going back to Telluride next year.
This is some of our own fall colors outside our door, although the golden shine is long gone now.

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Bar b que

We went to a fall bbq with all of Joachim's best buddies. Much to my surprise his social side has been blossoming all on it's own and he will run off with pack of kids and I don't hear from him again for long periods of time. This is a big change from even a few months ago when I still wondered if he would ever leavemy side.
Can you tell Katia is the youngest of 5? Joachim hasn't learned to make faces for the camera yet, I'm sure it won't be long.and another addition to the sleeping series.

Michael's Birthday

We were honored to celebrate Michael's b-day with him while he visited his grandparents here on the western slope. This was one of the first times Joachim seemed more independent with his peers (although, he would NOT join everyone else in wearing a party hat).
Michael's much coveted barn. Fortunately we found an old Fisher Price one at a yard sale about a week later. I keep looking for that toy that will entertain him for long periods of time and the barn was interesting for a while, but cooking remains his absolute favorite past time.

Yesterday he was out a the swings with my mom and he said, "I want to go in now to cook at my stove." He helps himself to our kitchen untensils and we can pretty much be sure that if it's not in the drawer then it's with his "kitchen"... That is where all strainers, spatulas, pots, pans, measuring spoons and so on end up. Last night he worked diligently sawing away at a pinecone with a plastic knife. He also has an "oven" (box) set up in the sand box with half of grandma's cooking utensils... she's just now learning to look in the sandbox for measuring spoons and pie pans.

Applefest

The festivals continue, our third annual family trip to Applefest for kettle corn.
I hadn't seen the frost damage to our garden when Ben came home and said that he felt guilty because it looks like he neglected picking tomatoes. He'd been bringing home so many tomatoes I couldn't imagine there were any still on the vines... I was surprised later that week when I stopped by. Would you believe those tomatoes are actually turning red now!?